About Culture of Sexual Relations
What does culture of sexual relations mean? What is it all about?
To begin with, let me stress that it is convenient to designate as vicious sex all its variants where egocentrism predominates, i.e. the tendency to receive for oneself in prejudice of another or others.
In contrast to this, let the care about the interests of a partner predominate in sexual relations! Only if both partners give themselves to each other, can the complete harmony be achieved! Only such sexual relations between people are admired by God, a constant Witness of all that we do!
Violence in any of its manifestations does not correspond in any way to the principle of the refusal of egocentrism and hence results in the accumulation of negative karma (one’s own bad destiny) by the possessors of such a vice.
Let subtle tenderness and concern for not causing any harm or even just discomfort to a partner predominate instead of violence!
Additionally, to take precautions against unintended pregnancy is an obligation not only of a woman, but of a man as well. So, one of the rules of culture of sexual relations is that a man does not have a right to inseminate a woman without her quite clearly expressed consent.
Contraceptives and ejaculation outside woman’s genitals can serve as the means of avoiding unintended pregnancies.
To practice basic hygiene, manifested in the clearness of genitals and hands, as well as to exclude any possibility to infect a partner when one has even the slightest symptoms of one’s own illness are also the essential rules of the culture of a sexual life.