Question: How can I make my husband attend our classes?
I am persuading him without end and to no avail...
Answer: Stop persuading him, and then, maybe, he will come some time later...
But, maybe he does not need all this.
But please, keep in mind that by frequently repeating our desire we more often
achieve the opposite effect. The same request or offer may be repeated no more than
two times in the same form. If we repeat it in the same form the third time we
become a bore. And any bore is the one whom it is extremely difficult to love at
close distance; it is possible only to try to tolerate him. No one is willing to
listen to, as well as to see, a person who proved to be a bore!
Being a bore is not just words, it is either energetic aggression (with coarse
energies) or bioenergetic vampirism.
Boringness of parents is a typical cause of their loss of contact with their
children. As a result, even the most reasonable offer a child accepts more readily
from other people, than from the parents. The reason is that parents proved themselves
to be bores, intolerable tyrants, whom one is willing to flee from but there is
no place to go!
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