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Question: How can I make my husband attend our classes? I am persuading him without end — and to no avail...

Answer: Stop persuading him, and then, maybe, he will come some time later... But, maybe he does not need all this.

But please, keep in mind that by frequently repeating our desire we more often achieve the opposite effect. The same request or offer may be repeated no more than two times in the same form. If we repeat it in the same form the third time — we become a bore. And any bore is the one whom it is extremely difficult to love at close distance; it is possible only to try to tolerate him. No one is willing to listen to, as well as to see, a person who proved to be a bore!

Being a bore is not just words, it is either energetic aggression (with coarse energies) or bioenergetic vampirism.

Boringness of parents is a typical cause of their loss of contact with their children. As a result, even the most reasonable offer a child accepts more readily from other people, than from the parents. The reason is that parents proved themselves to be bores, intolerable tyrants, whom one is willing to flee from — but there is no place to go!

 

 
 

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